Sunday, September 23, 2007

Why Men Act the Way They do

Hidden Reasons Men Act the Way They Do - "The fact is, he is a man, and many of the hurtful and calloused actions you have witnessed are simply the result of his nature as a man."

Mental/emotional differences:
"Women tend to be a more 'personal' than men. Women have a deeper interest in people and feelings, while men tend to be more preoccupied with practicalities that can be understood through logical deduction."

Physical differences:
"Men and women differ in every cell of their bodies. This difference in the chromosome combination is the basic cause of development into male or female as the case may be." Some of these physical differences: Women's basal metabolism is normally lower than men's. Women's thyroid gland is larger and more active. In brute strength, men are 50 percent above women.

Sexual differences:
"Women's sexual drive tend's to be related to their menstrual cycles, while men's drive is fairly constant. Women are stimulated more by touch and romantic words. They are far more attracted by a man's personality, while men are stimulated by sight."

Intuitive differences:
"What exactly is this 'woman's intuition'?" It's not something mystical; rather, it is an unconscious perception of minute details which are sometimes tangible, sometimes abstract in nature. Since it is usually an 'unconscious' process, many times a woman isn't able to give specific explanations for the way she feels. She simply perceives or 'feels' something about a situation or person, while a man tends to follow a logical analysis of circumstances or people."

Excerpts from chapter 3 of For Better or For Best: A Valuable Guide to Knowing, Understanding, and Loving Your Husband by Gary Smalley

Saturday, September 22, 2007

Booknotes

I started a new category called Booknotes.
I will put excerpts from books I/we have read.
It is just information I/we think is good to remember.
Since we are just beginning our life together we are not experiencing any problems.
We just want to be as informed about marriage and the each other's gender as possible.

Friday, September 21, 2007

Marriage Books

In preparation for marriage I have been reading some books.
The first two are more practical books about s*e*x.
The latter two are to better understand your spouse.

The Act of Marriage: The Beauty of Sexual Love
by Tim and Beverly LaHaye

Intended for Pleasure: Sex Technique and Sexual Fulfillment
in Christian Marriage
by Ed and Gaye Wheat

If Only He Knew: A Valuable Guide to Knowing, Understanding,
and Loving Your Wife
by Gary Smalley with Steve Scott

For Better or For Best: A Valuable Guide to Knowing, Understanding,
and Loving Your Husband
by Gary Smalley with Steve Scott

Will be posting booknotes later from these and other books.

Friday, September 14, 2007

Sicilian Meat Roll

Combine following ingredients:

2 beaten eggs
½ C tomato juice
½ t oregano
1 clove garlic
3/4 C soft bread crumbs
2 Tablespoons parsley
¼ t each salt & pepper
2 pounds ground beef (lean)

Spread on waxed paper.
Put on layer of ham (8 thin slices)
and 1 ½ C shredded cheese (6 oz).
Roll up so length remains.

And top with cheese slices (3 mozz).

Bake at 350 for 1 ¼ hours

Mom got this recipe from navy people

Friday, September 7, 2007

Tangy Meatloaf

Combine ½ c catsup
2 T brown sugar
½ t dry mustard
Remove 4 T of mix and set aside for topping.

To remaining add:
4 t Worcestershire sauce
¼ t garlic powder
1 ½ t onion powder
1 egg
Blend well.

Stir in 1 ½ c wheat chex crushed to ¾ c.
Add 1 ½ lbs ground beef.
Mix well.
Shape into loaf in shallow pan or loaf pan.

Bake at 350 for 65 minutes.
Remove from oven; add topping.
Bake another 15 minutes.
Makes about 6 servings.

From “Chex: The Natural Way to Good Cooking”.

Wednesday, September 5, 2007

Cake Topper


Our thought is for a small wedding and reception.
I was not really planning on a wedding topper.

But I was browsing Bridal People.com ...
and then saw the Circle of Love collection.

We both really like #691232 (shown above)

Tuesday, September 4, 2007

Sweets for my sweetheart

In addition to meals I prepared sweets for Randy.
I focused on things I expected he would enjoy.
Including CHOCOLATE, peanut butter, cherries and coconut.

I made the following cookies/bars:
Chocolate Shadows (chocolate and peanut butter)
Macaroonies (coconut and chocolate chips)
Orange Oatmeal Chews (healthy-ish)
Magic Cookie Bars (coconut and chocolate chips)

We would eat some the day I baked them.
Then I would freeze the rest for his trip home.

I like bread so made two types:
Cranberry Fruit bread (brought to reunion)
Banana bread (small loaf also sent home with him)

Couple other desserts:
Chocolate Bread Pudding topped with Cool Whip
- need to make different consistency next time,
Frozen Cherry Dessert
- very sweet and included cherry pie filling,
crushed pineapples, coconut and Cool Whip

Anybody really wonder why he gained about 10 pounds on vacation?

Dinner meals

When Randy was visiting I made sure he had home cooking.
Some of the meals gave us leftovers which I like.
But as a single man Randy was not use to leftovers.

Heaviest meals:
Lasagne - Randy's favorite
Tangy Meatloaf - made with wheat chex
Sicilian Meat Roll - my mom made for my birthday

Mid range meals:
Oven baked fried chicken - coated with corn chex
Ham steak, tater tots, peas, buttermilk biscuits
Regular steak, mashed potatoes and corn

Quick and simple meals:
Angel hair spaghetti
Hamburger casserole (chicken noodle soup and crushed chips)
Chicken casserole (cream of chicken, macaroni, green beans)

The two casseroles were favorites growing up.
My mother loaned me her Casserole Cookbook.